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In case I die: a practical checklist for the people you love

Create a printable family starting page with contacts, household responsibilities and document locations. Free to edit, save and print.

Start with a map, then gather the records #

Your family needs to know who to call, what needs attention, where records live and how to request appropriate access. You can make that map before every document is organized. It also helps during a hospital stay, an emergency or an extended absence.

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Make a family starting page

Prepare this before an unexpected absence or death. It is a starting map, not a checklist for settling an estate. Choose the parts that fit and keep the first copy simple.

Use locations and contact roles rather than passwords, recovery keys, full account numbers or identity numbers.

See a fictional example

Fictional example: “If I cannot guide you, call the household coordinator on our contact sheet. The pet-care routine is in the home folder. Our record index explains where originals live.”

Choose what goes in your printed copy

At least one section stays selected. Hidden entries remain in your editable draft, but are left out of the printed and text copies.

1. Who to contact first

Agree the roles with the people you name. Keep an immediately accessible offline contact sheet for urgent needs.

2. Keep the household running

Explain the practical responsibilities someone might otherwise have to guess.

3. Where the records are

An index points to protected records; it does not need copies of everything.

4. Make the handoff findable

Try one ordinary retrieval task together. Avoid opening sensitive records during the exercise.

0 prompts have an entry. Blank prompts become writing space in your copy; this is not a readiness score.

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Your copy

Make a family starting page

Prepared / reviewed: ____________________

Who to contact first

First contact and backup

First contact and backup: ________________________________________________

Professional contacts

Professional contacts: ________________________________________________

Keep the household running

What needs attention next

What needs attention next: ________________________________________________

Where to find ongoing instructions

Where to find ongoing instructions: ________________________________________________

Where the records are

Originals and copies

Originals and copies: ________________________________________________

Who can help find or replace them

Who can help find or replace them: ________________________________________________

Make the handoff findable

Where your chosen person should begin

Where your chosen person should begin: ________________________________________________

Review date and remaining tasks

Review date and remaining tasks: ________________________________________________

This is practical information, not a will, legal authority or permission to access an account. Keep urgent contacts available offline. Store this copy appropriately and share only what each person needs.

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Write the first page today #

Create a short note titled “Start here.” Keep it where your chosen person knows to look. Record locations and contact roles here; keep sensitive details in protected storage.

  • Who to contact first, plus a backup person if they cannot be reached.
  • Where to find your document index and the date you last checked it.
  • Which immediate responsibilities need a handoff: children, pets, dependent adults or scheduled care.
  • Who handles your legal, financial, insurance and workplace questions.
  • What your family should do if the usual person or device is unavailable.

Build your information inventory #

Work through these categories over several short sessions. Mark an item “not applicable” instead of hunting for a document your household does not have.

  • Identity and family records: list the records you hold and where originals are kept.
  • Legal planning: locate existing wills, trusts and powers of attorney, and record the professional who can explain them.
  • Money: list institutions, account purposes, regular bills and insurance contacts.
  • Digital life: list essential email, phone, cloud and password-manager services and their approved access processes.
  • Personal instructions: record people to notify and wishes you want discussed. Separate informal wishes from legal documents.

Source: National Institute on Aging: Getting your affairs in order

Add a household handoff #

A list of assets will not tell someone how next Tuesday works. Write a simple routine for the responsibilities you usually manage.

  • List bills due soon, their usual payment method and the provider to contact.
  • Explain recurring school, care, pet and home responsibilities.
  • Record where spare keys and home operating instructions can be found without putting access codes on a public sheet.
  • Leave a short list of subscriptions or services someone should review with the provider.

Test the starting point together #

Ask your chosen person to locate the index and one non-sensitive record without your help. If they get stuck, improve the instructions. Set a review reminder and revisit the plan after an account, contact, address or family change. This is an information-organizing checklist, not a will or permission to act on an account.

WiseTomorrow is a technology service for organizing and sharing information. It does not provide legal, tax, financial or estate-planning advice, does not replace a will, trust, power of attorney, beneficiary designation or advance directive, and does not verify that stored documents are valid. Consult a licensed professional for advice about your situation. Read the full legal disclaimer.

Sources and editorial notes

Prepared by WiseTomorrow, the maker of Wise Box. These resources help organize information; they are not an independent product review. No specialist review is claimed. How these resources are prepared.

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